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Thinking Out Loud
Explore Bonny’s work, ideas and insights


Startup leadership: why you can’t step away from your company (and how to fix it)
Many founders struggle to step away from their company, not because systems are broken, but because of a deeper startup leadership challenge. Here’s how to fix it.
3 min read


Startup Breaking at 20 Employees: Why Everything Starts Slowing Down
There is a stage in every startup where things start to feel heavier. Not because the strategy is wrong, but because what worked before no longer scales. If your company feels harder to run as it grows, this might explain why.
3 min read


Why Success Feels Empty as Your Startup Grows
Many founders reach big milestones and feel… nothing. This is not a lack of gratitude. It is a natural response to pressure. Here is why success feels empty in startups and how to bring the feeling back.
2 min read


Board Meeting Confidence: How CEOs Report Bad Quarters Without Losing Authority
Board meeting confidence is not about dominance. It’s about clarity. Here’s how to report a bad quarter and lead without shrinking.
2 min read


When the Startup Growth Phase Stops Feeling Exciting
If your startup feels less exciting and more repetitive lately, you’re not failing. You’ve entered the startup growth phase most founders misunderstand.
3 min read


Hard Dopamine vs Cheap Dopamine: How to Reprogram Your Brain to Get Shit Done
If you feel distracted, foggy, or unmotivated, you’re not broken. You’re burning cheap dopamine and starving hard dopamine. This article explains how to reprogram your brain to get shit done again.
3 min read


Before You Hire a Coach, Read This
Most founders rush to hire a coach when things get hard. But not all help is equal. Here’s how to know whether you need an advisor, a mentor, or a coach, and when each makes the biggest difference.
3 min read
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