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Thinking Out Loud
Explore Bonny’s work, ideas and insights


Why Startup Wins Sometimes Feel Like Losses
Many founders experience an unexpected emotional reaction when good things happen at the wrong time. Here's why bad timing can make success feel like failure and how to avoid the trap.
3 min read


The Hidden Problem with Founder Advice
We love studying successful founders. Podcasts, books, interviews, and social media give us endless access to the habits and thinking of people who built remarkable companies. The problem is that success stories only show us one side of the equation. Before copying another founder's playbook, there's a question worth asking.
3 min read


Founder Emotional Resilience: Why You're Not Stoic, You're Just Hiding
Many founders pride themselves on being calm under pressure. But what if that isn't resilience at all? Discover why emotional suppression quietly drains energy, affects decision-making, and limits company growth, and what real emotional resilience looks like for startup leaders.
4 min read


Why Startup Success Feels Empty: The Hidden Cost of Goal Fog for Founders
You hit the milestone. Closed the round. Signed the customer. Achieved the goal you've been chasing for months.
So why does success sometimes feel strangely empty?
Many founders experience a quiet emotional crash after major wins, yet few talk about it openly. In this article, we explore why startup success feels empty, how "goal fog" develops, and why learning to let wins land can make you a stronger leader.
4 min read


Advice to My 30-Year-Old Self: What I Wish I Knew When I Was Building My Startup
If I could talk to my 30-year-old self, I wouldn’t give business tactics. I’d talk about focus, relationships, burnout, and the quiet mistakes that affect startups more than strategy.
4 min read


Hard Dopamine vs Cheap Dopamine: How to Reprogram Your Brain to Get Shit Done
If you feel distracted, foggy, or unmotivated, you’re not broken. You’re burning cheap dopamine and starving hard dopamine. This article explains how to reprogram your brain to get shit done again.
3 min read
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